Home at Last (Metro Society)

(This piece was published in Metro Society‘s June 2011 issue)

These ambassadors and wives have opened up their homes in the name of the Philippines in various countries all over the world. Now they share lessons and stories about entertaining in the homefront.

Atypical Pinay (Illustrado Magazine)

(This article was published in Illustrado last March-April 2011)


uncharacteristic, nonconforming, uncommon

Brown, golden skin. Wild, curly hair. Pudgy–even flat nose. Round hips and legs. Atypical Filipina or in many ways a typical one? Nikka Sarthou inspires us with the stories of real women who may be far from conforming to the standard of beauty, but have embraced their unique Pinoy features.

Can we save the Manila airports? (OfficiallyPhilippines.com)

(This write-up was published in OfficiallyPhilippines.com last May 24, 2011)

For years now, travelers have been transiting through the Manila airports without much ado, but it was not until the Ninoy Aquino International Airport (NAIA Terminal 1) has been included in the list of 2010 Worst Airports in the World that people started to be more vocal about it, which prompted the local officials to [finally] take notice of it and do something about it. The list was featured in the international website called “The Guide to Sleeping in Airports,” which ranked NAIA as the fifth world’s worst airport.

In 2009, this Manila airport ranked seven in the same list, and it moved up—or more appropriately, moved down the list to gain the fifth position. The ranking was based on the airport facilities, safety concerns, waiting area, service of the staff, security, services to pass the time, presence of bribery, and other general concerns. NAIA Terminal 1 apparently did not meet the grade, as well as other infamous airports like Paris Charles de Gaulle airport, which came first on the list, followed by Paris Beauvais, Moscow Sheremetyevo, and Los Angeles.

Manila rounds up the top five list—a far cry from its neighboring Asian countries such as Singapore, Korea, and Hong Kong, which were included in the counterpart list of Best Airports in the World. Some of the reviews that the website highlighted were:

“…Think of a bombed out ruin… It’s like a cattle yard… Toilets filthy. No seating once you get through customs.” – Brenty

“Bribery and corruption in this airport is rife…” – Mecanix

“…You have to pay the airport user fee (bribe) to catch a connecting flight…” – PaulJ

Promoting tourism

As a Filipino, I would like to promote travel to the Philippines because I love my country and I think that it is really beautiful. The Philippines has a lot of natural wonders that would attract any travel enthusiast. But it could get somewhat embarrassing to promote travel to this side of the world when I know that all the foreign travelers have to pass through either NAIA Terminal 1 or 2.

Airports are the windows to the country and it would not come as a surprise if foreigners would not have a good impression of ours. Even if every Filipino would be a travel ambassador to the Philippines, it would still be hard to sell it primarily due to the travel experience that people would encounter when going in and out of our airports.

If our Asian neighbors can step it up, why can’t we?

<Read the rest of the article HERE.>

The Next Wave (Metro Magazine)


Grab a copy of Metro’s May 2011 issue and read my interviews with actor Jake Roxas, models Samantha Lewis and Pauline Prieto, photographer Ria Regino, indie band Taken by Cars, chef Niño Laus, graphic designer Christian San Jose, fashion designer and blogger Laureen Uy, and the late AJ Perez.

The Golden Rules Every Writer Should Live Right By

Compiled by Ana Santos, Nikka Sarthou, and Nina Terol-Zialcita

(Published as a sidebar in The Manila Times article “How to Jumpstart That Freelance Writing Career” –  April 12, 2010)

1. Be yourself. Don’t try to be someone else; don’t try to use someone else’s voice. Know yourself. Discover yourself. Know what’s comfortable and what works for you. Readers will be able to sense if you’re trying to fake something, and that is always an awful feeling.

2. Be patient with yourself. This is actually related to number 1. It might take a while for you to find your voice, or to find projects that you will love working on, or to get a paycheck that you will be happy with. As with many other things, writing—especially freelance writing—is a journey. It will take time, patience, networking, study, trial-and-error, and A LOT OF PRACTICE. So give yourself the time and space to explore your craft and you will emerge from it a better, more effective communicator.

3. Be original. It’s important to know who you are as a writer. It’s okay to find inspiration from great writers, but don’t copy them.

4. Write whatever. Practice writing so you will be good at it. It doesn’t matter whether you write in your journal or blog, you just need to write whenever possible.

5. Always learn. Grab learning opportunities whenever you can – join writing workshops, seminars, and other activities related to your craft. You can never go wrong with investing on your education.

6. Be obsessive-compulsive. Never take anything for granted. It’s the details that matter from start to finish. When interviewing, take detailed notes but also pay attention to your subject’s body language. When writing, pay careful attention to grammar, grammar, grammar. Never turn in work with a lot of grammar or typo errors, thinking that someone will “edit it anyway.” Pay careful attention to sources, references, insights, and deadlines. Writing is a very creative act, but it’s also bound by a lot of parameters. If you want to succeed as a freelancer, you’ll have to balance the art and the DISCIPLINE behind writing.

7. Go out. Meet people. If you think that being a writer means staying at your desk and nailed down to your computer, then you are so wrong. You need to go out, meet people and observe, listen to their conversations. Everyone has a story to tell to learn from and may be even write about.

8. Get to know people. Empathy is a trait of any good writer. Uncover a subject’s motivations, passions and imagine putting yourself in their shoes. It will enable you to paint personality profiles, and get the most out of your subject during an interview.

9. Never let an idea run away. Always bring a pen and paper to immediately write down an idea the absolute minute it strikes you. You’ll never know when a good idea will hit, so it’s always good to keep a pen and paper handy. If you’re caught without a pen, you type in your idea into your phone.

Comedy + Action = Date Night (WMN.ph)

Starring Steve Carell and Tina Fey

(This movie review about “Date Night” was published in WMN.ph, April 7, 2010)

Have you ever had a date gone bad? Well, nothing could probably compare to what happens in the action-comedy movie, Date Night.

Comedy superstars, Steve Carell and Tina Fey, play the lead roles in this film where they get to display their perfect comedic timing. It tells the story of an ordinary couple from the New Jersey suburbs, Phil and Claire Foster (Carell and Fey, respectively), who transformed from ordinary to the opposite in just one night.

Having two kids and being married for quite some time, they have established a routine of their own, including their weekly date night. Every week they have dinner at the same restaurant, and they have even developed a habit of talking about the other couples in the nearby tables (read: imagining what the other couples’ stories might be and making up a conversation about it). This was actually one of the laugh-out-loud moments in the movie.

When the Fosters found out that another suburban couple (who happens to be their best friends) was splitting up, they decided to look into their own relationship and tried to abstain from the monotony in their lives. During one of their regular date nights, Claire decided to ditch her usual boring outfit and go for a more sophisticated look. This prompted Phil to dress up as well and suggest that they go to the new, upscale restaurant in Manhattan. Unfortunately, when they got there, there were no available tables. So Phil decided to steal the reservation of a couple that didn’t show up – the Tripplehorns.

As they pretended to be the Tripplehorns while enjoying their risotto, two serious-looking guys approached them and asked if they were, in fact, the Tripplehorns. The Fosters went along with their charade and from there, their dream date turned into a nightmare.

Date Night is a great movie to watch if you want to forget all the stress in your life, even for just an hour or so. But be aware that this is a comedy film for adults, and there are a lot of innuendos that are not fit for young ears, as well as scenes that may not be appropriate for innocent eyes. Overall, it would not fail to make the audience laugh as comedy’s big names – Carell and Fey, really deliver in this film. You will surely have a moment or two where you will laugh out loud.

Notable parts to watch out for are Mark Wahlberg’s bare-chested scenes, and the creative pole dancing moves of Carell and Fey. Also, don’t forget to check out the hilarious outtakes during the credits of the film!

(Photo taken from this website.)

Great Gift Ideas for Mother’s Day (WMN.ph)

(This “Mother’s Day” article was published in WMN.ph last April 2009 )

Each time Mother’s Day comes around, you rack your brain for the perfect gift to give your mom. But what can you give to a woman who has it all? To make it easy for you, here’s a list of gift ideas to suit every budget.

1. A Day at the Spa
Pamper your mom by treating her to a full day at the spa. She would surely enjoy a soothing aromatherapy body massage (P820) and other wellness treatments. Give her a day of rest and relaxation by presenting her with gift certificates from The Spa. Visit their branches around the metro or check out their website.

2. All About Beauty
You can never go wrong with giving a lady some kind of beauty product. Go for a nice-smelling perfume like Lacoste Touch of Pink (P4,150). She’ll definitely love its sweet scent! Look for more beauty products at Watson’s or other department stores.

3. Smell the Roses
Brighten up your mom’s day with some fresh flowers that she can display at home. Choose from a wide variety of floral arrangements (P150+) at Dangwa Flower Market along Dos Castillas Street in Sampaloc.

4. Wine and Dine
Schedule a date with your mom at a fancy restaurant and make sure that you offer to get the tab! Indulge and let her enjoy a scrumptious dinner buffet (P1,600+) at Circles Event Cafe in Shangri-La Hotel Makati. It’s best to make a reservation before going: call (02) 813-8888.

5. Bring Out Her Inner Fashionista
What woman wouldn’t appreciate a new pair of shoes? You can splurge on a designer item, but if your budget wouldn’t permit it, a simple one would do. Just get something that suits her taste. Try bargain bag hunting at Greenhills Shopping Center.

6. Be a Health Buff
Many mothers are striving for a healthy lifestyle but not everyone can do serious workouts. Let your mom try out yoga and see if she likes it. Give the gift of health and enroll her in a beginners’ yoga class. See www.yogamanila.com for more information.

7. All that Glitters
Women have an ongoing love affair with jewelry. You don’t have to get your mom something expensive; a simple pair of pearl earrings (P500) would suffice. Take your pick from the wide selection at the Pearl Market in Greenhills Shopping Center. 

8. Go Nature Tripping
Bring your mom and the rest of your family to the La Mesa Ecopark and enjoy this oasis in the heart of the city. For a mere P40 per person, you can treat your whole family and let them commune with nature. Head to East Farview Subdivision in Quezon City or find out more details first at www.lamesaecopark.com.

9. Get Gadget Crazy
For the tech-savvy mom, only the latest gadget would do. Consider giving her the new iPod shuffle (P4,190) that has a VoiceOver feature. With this, she’ll be able to store more of her favorite songs that she can listen to. Purchase it online at the Apple Store.

10. Be a Culture Vulture
Let your mom see more of the Philippines’ cultural side. Check out the latest exhibit at Ayala Museum in Greenbelt. Or, get a couple of tickets and accompany your mom to see a ballet, musical play, or whatever is showing at the Cultural Center of the Philippines.

(Image taken from this site.)